Monday, February 28, 2005

Masterpiece

Make each day a masterpiece!

Is your "next act" (presentation, goal statement for your current project) up to the Cirque du Soleil Standard? Is today a "Masterpiece"?

-Tom Peters


Got this from Tom Peter's website. Great thought!

Dating, Mating & Waiting (part 3)

What do you do if you're single? A LOT!!!!

Marriage is not the ultimate state of existence.

Single people are not second class members of society!

All of you marriage addicts, shut up while the rest of us throw up!!!

It is possible to idolize marriage even as a married person, you know?!?!

To all you single people out there...on behalf of all married people AND all the Christian books on marriage...MY DEEPEST APOLOGIES!!!!

Aiiight?! Ya feeel me?!

A word to the single and the singled...its not about finding someone who "completes" you ala Jerry MacGuire. It's about finding the right vibe in your life where you can have undivided devotion to Christ.

Sniff...snifff....You had me at, "Hello."

Dating, Mating & Waiting (part 2)

Marriage is not about balance but about harmony. There's a HUGE difference!

Balance means compromise, losing a part of yourself blah, blah, blah....

Harmony requires that both notes be solid and whole. Same with marriage. It's the blending of two lives into one life where neither one has to lose their personal identity.

For harmony to happen, you need to be in the same key. Think WILL of God.

For harmony to happen, you both need to know your notes. Think SELF-AWARENESS and SELF-UNDERSTANDING.

For harmony to happen, you need to know one another. It's like Celine Dion and Peabo Bryson playing off each other because they know one another's habits vocally.

Hey, it's called l'amour NOT la mort. For you non-French speaking people l'amour means love/romance and la mort means death.

Dating, Mating & Waiting (part 1)

Dating sucks. Just a series of monogamous heartache. Why would you want to put yourself out there emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, and financially (?!) for someone you barely know? Stupid!

Alternative: Courtship instead of dating.

Take time to really, REALLY get to know someone. In fact, why not marry your best friend instead? What I mean is, why not instead of looking for a mate, develop awesome friendships...even with the opposite sex! Then go through a process of courtship where you discover whether or not one of your friends is really discguised as your spouse before you create any soul ties or at least before you heavily invest in the person emotionally!

As far as I can see, that's a win-win situation. If you find out that you're not meant for each other, at least you can remain friends for real without the embarrassment of having a "romantic history" with him/her.

O, l'amour!

Dating, Mating, and Waiting

Just finished a 3-part series at NuComm called "Dating, Mating and Waiting." I'll post a summary of each above...

Traffic Cop Lesson

Brought my kids to their ride to school this morning as usual. Got stuck in the middle of the intersection. Reason? Traffic cops!

I thought the whole purpose of a traffic cop is to make traffic flow smoothly?! These guys allowed buses to block the intersection rather than stopping them when the other side was full. Now, I know that this is how it is in Manila. But it's a simple example of a lack of leadership foresight at such a basic level in our society. Something's gotta change!

Friday, January 21, 2005

Appearing on The Club

Beth and I will be featured on The Club on ABS-CBN on February 8, 12:30am. In fact, the crew from CBN Asia is still here taping. Let me know what you think.

Tuesday, January 18, 2005

Spiritual Brew?

I got the article below from a friend...What do you think?


BREWING A ROBUST BLEND OF CHURCH, COMMERCE

By Sarah Schweitzer, Globe Staff | November 22, 2004

PEMBROKE, N.H. -- The line of parishioners outside the Grace Capital
Church chapel last Sunday morning stretched past the stained glass
windows, beyond a pile of church bulletins. They had come for spiritual
invigoration, but first the men and women waited turns to pay $1.25 a cup
for Starbucks's Shade Grown Mexico.

In a startling mix of religion and chain-store culture, Starbucks has
become a prime attraction at the Pentecostal church a few miles from New
Hampshire's capital city. Reflecting a philosophy that emphasizes a wide
range of enticements to get Christians to come to church, Grace Capital
leaders have installed a kiosk in the atrium to sell the premium coffee
cafe-style.

The church is one of a growing number of places of worship that have
allowed commercial enterprises to operate within their walls, a departure
from traditional Judeo-Christian notions of separation of church and trade
that Grace Capital officials say has helped build membership.

''People love it," said Pastor Peter Bonanno, who includes
Starbucks-printed coupons for free coffee in packets the church gives to
prospective members. ''We have had a lot of people come to church just
because we do it."

Bonanno notes that proceeds from the Starbucks coffee sales at the kiosk,
which church leaders have dubbed the ''Common Ground Cafe," go to
charities. This month the money will be donated to the Pembroke Christmas
Fund.

The model, dubbed ''sectarian entrepreneurship" by some religion
specialists, is thriving around the country, along with the growing ranks
of evangelical churches. The True Bethel Baptist Church in Buffalo, N.Y.,
recently opened a Subway sandwich shop. The Brentwood Baptist Church in
Houston has a McDonald's.

The intertwining of commerce and church, religion specialists note, is not
in itself revolutionary: Monasteries sold beer in the Middle Ages, and
gift shops have long been church staples. What is new is that the
religious institutions are inviting outside commercial outlets in -- a
move that makes sense, some say, in an age of mass-marketing and national
chains.

''What these churches are saying is life is about markets and their market
is Jesus or eternal life," said James Wellman, a professor of American
religion at the University of Washington. ''If you need to get people in
the doors with McDonald's you do it because once people get in the doors,
they realize that what they really want is not Big Mac but eternal life."

The introduction of chain stores in churches is part of a broader attempt
to make the church-going experience more like the outside world, said Mark
Silk, the director of the Center for the Study of Religion in Public Life
at Trinity College in Hartford.

The churches ''see their job as creating a whole world for their
parishioners," Silk said. ''The idea of the church is to be
multi-service."

It is not clear that businesses can make money in church. The Brentwood
Baptist Church in Houston has temporarily closed its McDonald's while it
analyzes poor sales.

But Grace Capital's Bonanno said his church is not worried about the
bottom line.

''This is not about making money," he said. ''This is about being a
blessing to others."

A Starbucks spokesman said it is company policy not to disclose the number
of accounts with houses of worship, but he described it as a ''large
number."

The movement to make churches less formal began on the West Coast in the
1970s and has since spread elsewhere. The style has been embraced by
evangelical and often non-denominational churches in the South and
Midwest, some called ''mega-churches" because their congregations number
in the thousands. The idea for selling Starbucks coffee at Grace Capital
Church came from one such place of worship, the Willow Creek Community
Church outside Chicago.

Grace Capital Church signals the expansion of the trend into New England.
It is affiliated with International Church of the Foursquare Gospel, a
Pentecostal denomination based in Los Angeles. It is one of an estimated
300 evangelical churches in the state, a number that has doubled over the
past decade, according to the New Hampshire Council of Churches.

Worship services at Grace Capital feature a multipiece band with electric
guitar, drums, and flute backing the choir. Video screens anchored to the
ceiling flash the words to prayers. Dress is casual and seating is in
unanchored chairs arranged in a semi-circle around the low-rise altar.

''We didn't want a churchy feeling," said Bonanno.

Starbucks, church leaders say, is a natural addition to the environment.

''People drinking coffee, relating to one another, loving each other,"
Jerry Cook, a pastor visiting last Sunday from a Foursquare Gospel church
in Seattle, where Starbucks is also sold. ''That's the essence of
Christianity."

Grace Capital Church has grown quickly. It started in a living room eight
years ago, later relocated to a school, and last July moved into a new
building overlooking the Suncook River. The beige-walled sanctuary holds
600 and is regularly near capacity. About half its congregants are former
Catholics, according to church officials.

''Growing up Catholic, the whole thing about church was about not being
allowed to do much of anything -- having to stand, kneel," said Jon
Berger, 34, a corporate driver, as he entered the sanctuary with a tall
Starbucks in hand. ''Here you can have a cup of coffee and be relaxed."

Still, Berger and others noted that the allure of the church runs deeper
than Starbucks.

''Christians like coffee," said Rick Bagley, 39, a general contractor.
''But what draws us here is Jesus Christ."

Monday, January 17, 2005

Feedback

I know that there are a few of you out there who read this blog. I really appreciate that! Let's make the most of this blog experience ok? Let me know your thoughts (agree or disagree) on the stuff I write in this space ok? All you have to do is click the "comment" button at the bottom of the entry that you want to riff on. Hope to hear from some of you guys soon.

Friday, January 07, 2005

Aldersgate 2005

Just got back from Baguio City where we held the annual Aldersgate Spiritual Renewal Conference. Over 450 delegates. This is about half of what we normally got in the past years but I'm sure several uncontrollable factors accounted for this. The good thing about it is that it seemed about 80% of attendees were first timers. It felt like we were doing the first Aldersgate ever! The response was very pleasing to those of us on the Board. And....we ended up in the black! It was the most peaceful and stress-free conference we've done thus far.

I was amazed at the lingering impact of my opening message, "Be the Miracle." Even to the last day, people remembered the whole outline: Dream Big, Act Now, Stand Out, Hang On. Be the miracle.

Simple is powerful.

Friday, December 31, 2004

Thursday, December 23, 2004

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

May you all have a great Christmas and amazing New Year! I'm pumped for 2005! But my diet is shot and my gym doesn't recognize me anymore...huhuhu....hahaha! Bring on the food and the merry-making!

Wednesday, December 22, 2004

In Search of Soul

Had coffee with DJ Benjo today. Gained a lot of insight regarding the club and rave scene. Had him give me a little history lesson on the music.

Two main families for music in the club scene. New York is where "Garage" music came from which has its roots in disco...the Jersey garage sound. Then some key guys from New York brought the grooves to Chicago, the home of the blues! They opened a place called The Warehouse which is where we derive "house" music from.

This all started because people felt that music was too commercialized. They wanted freedom...from commercialism and freedom to express themselves the way they wanted to.

What strikes me is that this music, as with all true music and musicians, comes out of a specific philosophy of life and particular ideals.

And this started me thinking...

There are so few true musicians out there! Most people are technicians not artists! They work so hard to sound like a certain musician or a certain band. They're so busy trying to sound like someone else that they never find their own sound. But its more than finding your own sound. Coz music is about expressing a personal philosophy of life; passionately fleshing out your particular ideals!

It's about a journey to discovering and expressing your own soul!!!

Too many "musicians" never embark on this journey. They never seek out their souls. They may play good licks and develop cool sounds and may even have some smooth vibes.

But only true artists play from the soul!

Tuesday, December 21, 2004

1CUBED Air Date

Looks like our guesting will be aired on the first and second Fridays of 2005. That's January 7 and 14. Check it out!

The episode features Jagged, Still (Carlos Choi & Co. from Cebu), Gabriel Valenciano, and Robin Nievera. Yes, the last two names are who you think they are....

Friday, December 17, 2004

1CUBED Guesting at Alabang New Life

Did a guesting for 1CUBED last night with the new band, Jagged. Was questioning Beth if we're not getting too old for these gigs! :-) I figured that as long as they keep inviting, we'll keep showing up. This was the first real gig for the guys. I hope they had a good time. There must have been about 1000 plus people in the live audience last night. Check it out when it airs.

One world. One music. One hope.

Tuesday, December 14, 2004

Firefox has arrived!

Download the amazing new browser from mozilla at www.getfirefox.com. You'll be glad you did!

Friday, December 10, 2004

Lessons from Starbucks (part 5)

"Whatever you do, don't play it safe. Don't do things the way they've always been done. Don't try to fit the system. If you do what's expected of you, you'll never accomplish more than others expect."

Great thoughts, Howard!

Lessons from Starbucks (part 4)

A recurring theme with Schultz (see posts below) is how Starbucks has become America's Third Place. A place that is neither work nor home. A place to be refreshed. A place to rest from work-related pressure and domestic stress. A place to be inspired.

Sounds like what the Church is supposed to be. The Church's greatest competition is NOT other religions or other churches. It is places like Starbucks, Shoe Mart, Festival Mall etc...which have become the main gathering places for people to be recharged.

Lessons from Starbucks (part 3)

"We built the Starbucks brand first with our people, not with consumers...Because we believed the best way to meet and exceed the expectations of customers was to hire and train great people, we invested in employees who were zealous about good coffee. Their passion and commitment made our retail partners our best ambassadors for the coffee and for the brand. Their knowledge and fervor created a buzz among consumers and inspired them to come back. That's the secret of the power of the Starbucks brand: the personal attachment our partners feel and the connection they make with our customers."

Howard Schultz, Pour Your Heart Into It (p. 245)

What I see here is that we have got to take care of our own people first. The customer/consumer is not king and does not come first! Our own people do. Because they are the ones who represent us. They are the ones who directly touch our customers. They are our first constituency. Treat them well!

Lessons from Starbucks (part 2)

Howard Schultz shares about how he had to reinvent himslef 3 times as Starbucks grew into the Billion dollar industry it is today. He started off as a dreamer. He was the entrepreneur who had the dream to change the way the world looked at coffee. Then he had to learn new skills and become a professional manager as they began opening a store every business day. When Starbucks grew even bigger, Schultz had to reinvent himself as leader. Yesterday I found out that he reinvented himself yet again since the printing of his book. He now functions as the Chief Global Strategist for Starbucks!

They sure don't teach you how to reinvent yourself in college or in business school! If you're gonna grow your organization, you have to grow with it. Listen and learn!!!