Monday, February 28, 2005

Dating, Mating & Waiting (part 1)

Dating sucks. Just a series of monogamous heartache. Why would you want to put yourself out there emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, and financially (?!) for someone you barely know? Stupid!

Alternative: Courtship instead of dating.

Take time to really, REALLY get to know someone. In fact, why not marry your best friend instead? What I mean is, why not instead of looking for a mate, develop awesome friendships...even with the opposite sex! Then go through a process of courtship where you discover whether or not one of your friends is really discguised as your spouse before you create any soul ties or at least before you heavily invest in the person emotionally!

As far as I can see, that's a win-win situation. If you find out that you're not meant for each other, at least you can remain friends for real without the embarrassment of having a "romantic history" with him/her.

O, l'amour!

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